Real estate books are a mixed batch. There are those that I recommend, such as Eldred and McLean’s excellent Investing in Real Estate, now in it’s fifth edition. On the other end of the spectrum is Robert Kiyosaki’s bestselling fable Rich Dad Poor Dad, a dangerous and misleading book if ever there was one.

I’ve written that I’m not a big fan of the legislation currently making its way through congress that would require lenders to cut homeowners a break as they look into the chasm of foreclosure. While I’m not against the idea of giving consumers a helping hand – particularly when doing so shores up the economy – I am against the idea of trying to characterize such moves as free, tax-neutral bailouts funded which the banks will fund. These costs are always passed on to the consumer.
Real estate investing is all about relationships and dealing with people. In this column I’ve written about the need for trust in order to build long term symbiotic relationships. I’ve also written about using contracts to build a solid legal safety net.
So…which is it? Back in the ‘60s a management theorist Douglas McGregor originally wrote about two theories about managing relationships: Theory X, which is a negative view that assumes that people are inherently lazy, dislike work, and need (want) to be controlled, and Theory Y which argues the opposite – that people are self-motivated and will choose to seek responsibility and do good work.
There’s no getting around it: there’s simply too many real estate agents out there.
I wrote in a recent post that real estate investors who work with a Realtor will generally end up overpaying for their services; if you pay a $12,000 commission check it’s highly unlikely that you’ve actually gotten $12,000 worth of time or effort out of the Realtor that supported you. And note that a healthy portion of that fee will be passed directly to the buyer – the idea that “the buyer doesn’t pay a commission” is a myth.

It’s hard to argue with the success that Robert T. Kiyoski has had with his Rich Dad series. Head over to Amazon.com and you’ll see almost fifty items on offer; Rich Dad in English, Rich Dad in Spanish, Rich Dad for women and kids. Even Rich Dad in Chinese. My personal favorite is the DVD Rich Dad’s 60 Minutes to Getting Rich. Ok, it’s a bit pricy at $79.99…but that’s a small price to pay for a DVD that will make you rich in 60 minutes, right?
I’ve often mentioned that real estate investing is all about people. Here are three ways in which this general principle manifests itself.
Information wants to be free: Real estate investing certainly has an element of secrecy, as does any business endeavor that involves negotiations. For example, when you’re on the buy leg of a 1031 exchange you don’t want the seller and you’re running short on time you don’t want the seller to know that you’re under pressure to make a deal work. And when you’re selling a property that you just bought FSBO you don’t want the buyer to know that you purchased it for a song.
The New York Times ran an interesting piece today on the subprime mortgage rollercoaster.
There’s no getting around it; investing in real estate means dealing with people. Building skills as a negotiator is the most important part of being successful as an investor.
(CBS) Home appraisers Pam Crowley and Joyce Potts knew the roof was caving in on the housing industry four years ago, CBS News correspondent Sharyl Attkisson reports. Click here.
That’s when they noticed their profession being turned on its head. Instead of letting them do their job and figure what a home was worth … bankers and Realtors started telling them what dollar number to hit.